Ever had problems/arguments with your parents about this specific subject--dating?
Ever hated your parents because of this rule--"you're not allowed to date till you're older"?
These few questions always block my way. I'm born in a Christian family. We have "rules". We also have a chinese culture. I hate the feeling of sneaking something from my parents. I hate the feeling of having to lie to them. But sometimes I just can't help it. I wonder why they can't just let me experience the feeling of having someone who cares for you so much. I so miss that feeling right now, but I can't do anything about it.
Have you gotten to the point where you start dating another person without your parents knowing? I admit, I've gone to that point already. After that relationship, I felt guilty, but not guilty enough. Not regretful either.
Has your parents ever walked into you with another guy--the guy you like? Here's a more general question. Why do parents tell you not to date?
I think the main reason I collected was that they don't want to see you get hurt. A lot of my friends say it's because they don't want to see you grow up. But is that really true? My parents always say that they want me to grow up. Just into a Godly Christian girl. Not some...other thing. They know that once you start dating a guy, and then break up, that scar on your heart will be left there forever, and that when you grow older, you may not want to have another relationship. You may not want to open yourself up because you don't want to be hurt again.
In other conditions, I've found that I would be craving another relationship because I missed the feeling of being important. Although it's just that one, same guy that I like, I would still crave for a relationship whether with that guy or not. It's tough not getting yourself into another relationship, but once you overcome that barrier, you can almost go through anything else.
I'm waiting for that same guy here...I have a thread of hope even though I think that we're hopeless. I don't wanna sneak around my parents, but sometimes I can't help it. Help is what I need, but am I willing to accept it? Would you be able to?
In other conditions, I've found that I would be craving another relationship because I missed the feeling of being important. Although it's just that one, same guy that I like, I would still crave for a relationship whether with that guy or not. It's tough not getting yourself into another relationship, but once you overcome that barrier, you can almost go through anything else.
I'm waiting for that same guy here...I have a thread of hope even though I think that we're hopeless. I don't wanna sneak around my parents, but sometimes I can't help it. Help is what I need, but am I willing to accept it? Would you be able to?
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